Is what you are chasing worth it?

What if you had to stare at dust, constantly, for years on end? What if that is what you are doing right now? In Dante’s Divine Comedy, the poet (c.1265-1321) portrays himself as the narrator on a tour of Hell, Purgatory and Paradise. Set aside your theological issues: The epic is one of the world’s most important works. Dante’s story …

Conversation: the art every leader must perfect

What do elementary school kids, some barbers, a Canadian pastor and our clients have in common? They are all noticing the crucial, crucial need for conversation in leadership.  Good news: There are practical ways to hone your conversational skills.  Resources referenced in this episode: “Why All Future Leaders Will Be Great Conversationalists”  “The Coaching Habit“ “The Storyteller’s Secret”  “Conversation: Even …

Hey manager: Please don’t be nice.

If there is one phrase clients have said to me over the years (besides “help me” and “thank you”), it’s this: “Mark, I know you’d tell me to be nice, but. …“ There are variations. “I didn’t do that the Hip Socket way.” Or, “I wasn’t very nice.” My goal in this post is to share one basic fact with …