Just a few small words

My post encouraging people struggling with mental health inspired a reader to send this article: “Small acts of kindness matter more than you think.” Backed by tons of research, the article argues, “Text a friend, write a thank-you note, compliment a stranger — people appreciate these gestures.” Boy do they. If you give yourself a moment, you’ll be able to …

How you can get DISC wrong

This is the latest in a series about the DISC behavioral model. If you’re interested in taking Wylie’s DiSC assessment, I’d be happy to help. There are also lots of resources to explore on Hip Socket’s dedicated DISC page. Are you a “personality test skeptic?” Do you think all these letters and reports to describe people are a bunch of …

When the suffering stays

“Now Dad, your job is to hold her shoulders down. Don’t let up under any circumstance.” When my oldest turned 1, the pediatrician wanted to do some bloodwork. He wanted to eliminate some concerns, and to do that, he needed vials of blood. I pressed her shoulders against the mat. The nurses pierced her and began to draw out blood. …